We all love a good bliss ball, but did you know that you could be adding some incredible ingredients to that can help to reduce your stress and bring the bliss back into bliss balls?
Stress and anxiety is in running high in 2020, which is why I created these ‘Calm Bliss Balls’. When things begin to feel overwhelming, we often stress-eat to give ourselves a sense of stability and a burst of comfort. So we will go for the foods that bring us this joy, such as a block of chocolate or coffee. Yes, these foods would give me a sense of feeling better, but it would wear off quickly, making me reach more comfort food. They were here for a quickie, not the long haul.
Recipe: Calming Bliss Balls
Makes Approx 7-15 Balls, Depending on how big or small you roll them.
1 cup Medjool Dates – seed removed and chopped
1/3 cup Rolled Oats (or oat flour)
4 tbsp Cocoa Butter
2 tbsp Hemp Seeds (Hemp Hearts)
2 tbsp Matcha Powder
1/2 tbsp Bhrami Powder
3-5 drops Peppermint Oil
Pinch of Salt
Place all ingredients in a food processor, and blend/pulse until mixed together till smooth.
Scoop out mixture and roll into little bliss balls.
Can be placed in an airtight container and placed in the fridge for a week. (although mine never lasts that long!)
Why do these balls make you calm?
A good question! These balls are little bit sized moments of delicious goodness and contains different herbs to help calm your mind and body.
Matcha – Matcha comes from the Camellia sinensis plant, and contains high levels of the Amino Acid; L-theanine; which is known to reduce stress while giving your mind a calm alertness. (which makes these balls a perfect 3pm pick-me-up!)
Bhrami – Bhrami known as its botanical name as Bacopa monnieri, is an Ayurvedic herb that has been used for centuries in helping to calm the mind and relax the body.
My favourite Ayurvedic inspired calming elixir. 🍵🌿 This is my go-to drink to help calm my body and mind during the cooler months.
Ingredients: ▪︎1 cup milk (your choice, I use nutty bruce almond/coconut) ▪︎I tsp cacao powder ▪︎ 1 – 2 Medjool Dates (de-pipped ) ▪︎ 1/2 tsp Bhrami powder ▪︎ 1 tsp Ashwagandha powder ▪︎ 1/2 tablespoon Ghee (optional) ▪︎ 2 tsp Maple Syrup or Jaggary
To Make: ▪︎ Put all ingredients together in a blender (except Ghee, Bahrami and Ashwagandha), and blend together. ▪︎ Pour blender content into a pot and add ghee. ▪︎ Heat milk on medium till required temperature. ▪︎ With heating, using a whisk, add in the Bhrami and Ashwagandha, whisking to mix them in, and to create a milk froth. ▪︎ Once at the desired temperature, pour into a cup and enjoy.
In our modern society, it can be hard to be grounded and centred.
Our days are a mixture of technology, frantic energies of the busy city or shopping centres, and rushing from here to there. More than ever before we are finding that we are living more in our heads. Our thoughts running a mile an hour and our nervous systems are on high alert (whether we are aware of it or not)
It is no wonder we are finding it hard to be grounded.
Before I go on, lets just quickly chat about the idea of being grounded. To me, there are two definitions of what being “grounded” means.
Grounded: Being connected to the earth. Grounding your roots to the earth.
Grounded: Being calm and in balance with yourself. To be centred and focused.
To me, these are pretty much the same thing. When you ground to the earth, you are also grounding within yourself: and vice versa. To me, being grounded is just being centred and connected to the now. I find that when I am not grounded, I am space-y, my nervous system goes a bit haywire and I am all over the place. Sometimes I don’t even notice I am in this state, as it usually builds up over time. For me personally, things like being in front of my screens (laptop/phone), being on a plane, or being in a place like a shopping centre: are all things that lead to me feeling un-grounded.
When I am grounded: I feel peaceful, solid, strong, and able to think without the monkey mind coming to play. My creativity and ideas are able to flow with ease, and my thoughts are rational and calm.
I have found these few tricks easy ways to help me re-ground to myself and the earth when I become un-grounded.
Being in Nature
This may sound obvious, but sometimes I actually find it hard to be in a natural environment when I am un-grounded. I am so in my head, (which is usually racing with thoughts), that my mind can’t stand being in the calming nature vibes for too long. As the old saying goes: it is like I have ants in my pants, and I just cannot stop and BE. Being grounded, helps us be in the now; rather than when we are all in our heads, where our mind is usually racing towards something(s) in the future or dawdling its feet kicking dust about in the past. When we connect into nature, we help re-balance our energy and connect into the natural flow of the rhythm of the earth.
Tip: Walk around in a park, at the beach, or in your backyard. Pause and be mindful. If you can, take off your shoes and let your bare feet touch the earth or water/sand. Use your different senses to connect. Touch the leaves, let the sand fall between your fingers. Smell the flowers, listen to the waves. Just enjoy.
When we are un-grounded we often forget to breathe deeply. Often we are in such a rush that our breath becomes shallow and we don’t even realise. There are many amazing breathing techniques out there – I would recommend speaking to your local Yoga Teacher or Health Expert.
Trick: This is a simple technique that I personally use when I am feeling un-grounded. It can be used anywhere at any time. I have done this on planes, in movie theatres, shopping centres etc. Focus in on your breath. (if you can, shut your eyes) and take a deep breath in for 4 counts, hold the inhale for 4 counts, let it go for 4 counts, and hold the exhale for 4 counts. Repeat 5-10 times, or until you are feeling grounded.
While doing this, I like to imagine my energy travelling down to the earth and connecting into the heart of the earth. To let my roots travel downwards, deeply and strongly, helping me to stand tall and stable. With each inhale, I imagine beautiful grounding energy from the earth travelling up from the earth into my feet, flowing into my body with each breath; and with each exhale, I let go of any stress or negative frantic energy, and release it back down into the earth to be naturalised.
Hooray! Yes, food is an easy and delicious way to help you feel more grounded. Eating heavier foods such as veggies grown under the dirt (rather than on a vine etc), and foods like meats, can help us to feel grounded once consumed. When you are feeling ungrounded, it is best to avoid things like alcohol and really dry foods like popcorn. This is because, (in accordance with Ayurveda), these foods have a higher percentage of the element of Air in them, and this will not help in grounding you down.
How many times have you had someone say, “Just find your Passion”. Or you have heard the old saying “Do what you are passionate about, and you won’t work another day in your life”.
I’m not going to lie, for years hearing these words really pissed me off! I didn’t know what I was passionate about, let alone knew how to make this into something I could do every day.
I would look around me and see people living these amazing lives doing what they loved, and I had major green eyes towards them. So I decided to dig a little deeper and discover, first what living your passion meant to me, and then how I could go about doing this.
For me, living your passion is all about living a life that you love, regards of what this looks like. What I discovered on my journey to finding out how to ‘live my passion’, was that there was no one way to do this. There are so many self-help books and articles on the web talking about how to find your passion etc, and yes some of them were helpful. However, others made it seem like such hard work! Screw that! So this is what I did to help me on the path of ‘living my passion.’ It is very simple, and cuts outs to the chase in helping you find your passion!
Finding Your Passion
To help me find my passion, I asked myself these 3 questions:
1. What are you good at?
2. What do you like to do?
3. What makes you happy?
4. Which ones of these cross over or connect to each other?
Then I asked myself these questions:
1. Are you excited to get out of bed and go about your day?
2. What do you feel is holding you back in life?
3. How often do you do what you love/makes you happy?
4. What you are currently doing in life, are you doing it for you, or doing it to please someone else?
A Visualisation To Help Manifest What You Desire
A beautiful little exercise I love to do is to imagine my perfect day. Just a normal day (not a day when you win the lottery or anything like that) in which you are truly happy and living your passion.
I love to do this a few times, one for me right now (or the near future), one for me in a year, and one for me in 5 years. I find these “perfect” days really differ between these different time frames, and I can see what direction I want my life to be going.
Once doing this, I then have a look at how my life is going now, and what I can do to help create these perfect days in my life. I have a look at the path I am walking down and see if this is leading me to the destination I desire.
YOUR PASSION DOES NOT HAVE TO BE YOUR JOB!
Something that always annoys me when people say ‘follow your passion’; people take this to mean: you have to up-heave your life and quit your job to live your passion. Let’s be honest here, it is just not in everyone’s reality to do this. People have families to support, bills to pay, food to buy etc.
Living your passion looks different for everyone! We are often lead to believe that ‘following our passion’ means quitting our jobs to pursue our long-forgotten dream of being a health coach or whatever. (Also not knocking health coaches, as I personally am one! haha) I believe that ‘living your passion’ is about living a life that truly nourishes you in mind, body and spirit. It is about finding love and passion and joy in our every day lives. For example, if your passion is painting: You don’t have to quit your job, move to Paris and become the next Picasso. (I mean if you can, you can totally go and do that!) What you can do, is find ways to bring your love of painting into your life. Sure you may still have your 9-5 job, but evenings and weekends could be about going to art museums and joining an art class. What about even setting up a stall at your local market and selling your gorgeous paintings there? There are so many ways we can incorporate our passions into our current lives, rather than throwing that all away and starting from scratch like a mid-life crisis scenario!
Find out what your passion is, and then find out a way to bring this passion into your life. Remember there are no rules to ‘living your passion’. Do not ever feel like your passion is silly or not good enough to be qualified as a passion. If your passion is being a mum or dad, then that is your passion, no questions asked, no justification needed. If your passion is gardening, thrift shopping, or trying to make the world a better place… then that is YOUR PASSION! HECK YES!
Do you use a tongue scraper? When someone first introduced me to a tongue scraper my first week of studying Ayurveda back in 2015, I wasn’t that keen. But now? I can’t even imagine going a day without using this beautiful tool!
In oral hygiene, we all know that we need to brush our teeth. But out of the whole mouth, our teeth are only 1/3 of it! So why are we only cleaning 1/3?! Scraping the tongue daily helps to remove any built-up toxins (ama) and other coatings that builds upon the tongue.
Tongue Scraping is such an easy yet powerful way to help cleanse the body daily. Our tongue plays an important role in our health. From it, we can see what is happening in the body (stresses, mal-nutrition, imbalances) and is one of the first points in the digestive system. When we clear our tongue daily, we improve our ability to taste and be satisfied with our food.
HOW TO USE:
Using a tongue scraper is easy. First thing in the morning (before consuming any liquid or food) brush your teeth, then use your tongue scraper. Hold it gently at the back of your tongue and pull forward, scraping it along the tongue to the tip. Do this 7-14 times, depending on the condition of your tongue. Wash the scraper and see all the muck that was accumulated on your tongue. Rise your mouth afterwards. You can also do this practice after each meal.
Copper tongue scrapers now available at the Clinic.
How often do you hear the saying “Eat local in-season food”? It is one of those sayings that we hear about a lot, but without a clear indication of the ‘Why’ behind it. In Ayurveda, it is high up on the list of ways to help keep you at optimal health and wellbeing, so let me explain why.
When we eat seasonal local produce, we are helping our Body and Mind to align with the Earth and our natural environment. This food has the current energy of the season it is produced in, which then helps our own energy to customise to the current season. We as humans are part of the natural eco-system and the natural laws of the earth. Which means that we get affected by the seasons just like how the plants and animals do. In our modern-day world, we have lost this connection, especially when it comes to our diet. We can eat produce all year round, regardless of the time of year or season. While some might think that is great – I mean who wouldn’t want mangoes all year round right? They are delicious! This way of consuming food is having negative effects on our body and mind.
Let me explain why…
By eating local, fresh, seasonal food, we are fueling our body with food high in nutrients, rather than the depleted food that has been sitting in storage for months before hitting your supermarket shelves. This food, is low in Prana, aka Life Force, and it is often loaded with chemicals and waxes to keep them looking fresh.
With our modern-day food system, it means we can eat foods like for example tomatoes all year long, but that doesn’t mean we should. Nature has everything figured out for us and provides us with the food needed within that season.
For example, Oranges are best between June – October in Melbourne, with its high Vitamin C and warming energy, this fruit is naturally designed for us to consume during winter to help fight off touches of flu and colds and keep us warm.
Not sure what is in season? The Seasonal Produce website HERE has a great month by month list of seasonal fruit and veggies that they put out. Or just hit up your local farmers market, or try growing a few of your own fruit and veg!! Nothing tastes better than a homegrown carrot or freshly picked apple!!
Something that I notice time and again in the clinic, and from just generally chatting with friends and family, is this classic routine that people fall into.
Coffee in the morning to wake up, wine (or other alcoholic drink) at night to wind down. Anyone guilty of this?
While there is nothing wrong with enjoying your coffee or a glass of wine, there is something out of balance if you are relying on it to function properly each morning and night!!
What this routine is doing is constantly playing with our nervous system, which for most people, is something that is incredibly burnt out! By constantly having to jolt start it with caffeine in the AM and sedate it in the PM, we are creating a not so healthy and supportive routine that we believe we cannot live without!
Coffee and alcohol are great when we are enjoying them out of just the pure fact that it is delicious, but when it come into a co-dependant relationship with these drinks, then something isn’t right.
Have a look at your relationship with these drinks. How is it? Do you feel you may be in a co-dependent relationship with one or both of them? If so, it might be time to step back and change this relationship.
During a consultation, I can help to find why you have developed this relationship, and show you ways that best suit you, to create a new healthy relationship with these drinks. Call or DM to book in. (Skype sessions available)
Our menstrual cycle is truly a power and beautiful tool to to help us see not only what is going on health-wise within us, but also about what path we are currently on in our life. Our cycle can show us if we are carrying negative beliefs or memories around our sexuality, birth trauma, issues around our parents, or if we are carrying too many toxins in our system. Just like the oceans, we are influenced by the moon. So taking into account big moon events – such as super moons, eclipses, etc, can help us be more aware of what is happening to our cycle.
You may or not have heard that your menstrual cycle goes in sync with the moon. For most people the get their period during the new moon, and ovulate during the full moon. This is called a White Moon cycle. Yet other people find that they ovulate on the new moon, and get their period during the full moon. This is called the Red Moon cycle. The red and white cycle are the more common cycles, however, I had to ask, what happens when you are getting your period, not in alignment with the Red or White cycle. In this case, you may be in alignment instead with either a Pink Moon or Purple Moon cycle. Read more below to see which Cycle you are currently in alignment with.
— Please note: There is no right and wrong cycle to be aligned with. Just like every other part of our lives, our menstrual cycle with go through phases, and these phases are different for each person. If you are having concerns about your menstrual cycle, please book in for an appointment, and we can work together to help you find peace and flow back into your cycle.
White Moon Cycle
The White Moon Cycle is the most common cycle to sync up with. This cycle means that you menstruate on the new moon and ovulate on the full moon. When you are in alignment you are in balance with the Earth and Moon’s divine sync. When the moon is dark, you go within and bleed, then when the moon is full and bright, you are at your lightest and brightest. Just like the earth, you are in the cycle of Fertility. (this is the cycle followed for practices like bio-dynamic farming etc)
Red Moon Cycle
The Red Moon Cycle is the second most common cycle. This cycle means that you menstruate with the full moon and ovulate on the new moon. Women in alignment with this cycle are often the healers, (em)power-players, wisdom-holders and magic makers. Back in the day, women with this cycle were seen as the “evil” or witches. Of course, that was just coming from the fear of people who do not go with the flow/normal way of doing things. This cycle is often held by women who are here to help others, so when most people are in their darkness on the new moon, red cycle women are at their brightest, and when the other women (white cycle) are at their brightest, then the red cycle women go in and heal and rest.
Pink Moon Cycle
The Pink Moon Cycle, although not as common as white or red, is just as powerful. This cycle means that you menstruate with the waxing moon and ovulate with the waning one. The waxing moon occurs after a new moon and is when the moon is building and illuminating to a full moon. So just like the waxing moon, if you are aligned with the pink moon cycle, you are most likely in a transitional stage of your life. A waxing moon is coming away from the new moon stage of inner reflection, darkness and rest and is heading towards the full moon stage, of light and strength. This could mean that if you are in alignment with the pink moon cycle, you are coming out of a stage of darkness and rest in your life.
Purple Moon Cycle
The Purple Moon Cycle, just like the pink cycle, is not as common, but still just as powerful. This cycle means that you menstruate on the waning moon and ovulate on the waxing moon. The waning moon occurs after a full moon and is when the moon is retreating and darkening to a new moon. Just like the waning moon, if you are aligned with the purple moon cycle, you are most likely in a transitional stage of your life. A waning moon is coming away from the full moon stage of fullness and strength and is heading towards the new moon stage of inner reflection, darkness and rest. This could mean that if you are in alignment with the purple moon cycle, you are going into a stage of quietness, darkness and rest in your life. This could mean that you are in a stage of seeing into the *dark aspects of you and your life. *when I say darkness, this does not mean evil. This just means the shadow self. This is a time to see what is no longer serving you and to take the time to go into your cocoon, to transform and emerge into the beautiful butterfly.
Information source: https://yogagoddess.ca/decode-your-cycle/
People sometimes can feel overwhelmed when focusing on their health. So here is an easy Ayurvedic checklist you can work off to help guide you in living your day with love, peace, vitality and a grateful heart.
Start your day with rinsing your face with cold water, tongue scraping, and drinking warm water (feel free to add in some lemon!)
Before breakfast, take time to honour yourself and this new day by practising Gratitude, Meditation and Deep breathing/Yoga.
Eat a medium breakfast, larger lunch and small dinner. Sip on ginger tea beforehand to activate your Agni (digestive fire).
Eat foods that are in season, bring you joy, are wholesome (so not processed or full of artificial ingredients) and that is best suited for your personal state of health (to learn more on this, book in for your Ayurvedic Health Coaching session)
Connect with nature. Take time during the day to align yourself with the natural flow of the planet. This could be walking barefoot on the grass or sand, sitting under a tree, listening to the birds or bees, or even just taking in the beauty of the tree outside your office window)
Move that booty! Even if it is just a walk around the block, 10 mins of exercise makes a huge difference!
Find a way to nourish and connect to your Mind, Body and Spirit. Do something daily that brings you growth and joy.
A huge problem we have in our modern day society, is we want a quick fix. We want fast and quick results – and we want these results to have little impact on how we live our lives. Which is what leads people to blindly take a pill or have unnecessary surgeries etc.
○●○●○ But I am here to say, this is wrong. Oh so wrong!!
When something is happening in our health, and our body is telling us that something isn’t working, we NEED to listen. Not only do we need to listen, but we need to act. Our body is our home for life, and as I love to say: Adding fresh paint to a wall with termites, doesn’t change the fact that your wall has termites! •• Yes from the outside this wall now looks fresh and healthy, but eventually those termites will destroy that wall. And left unchecked, those termites will spread all over the house, till it becomes un-liveable.
When our body is ill, in pain or not functioning like it should, these are all warning signs… a cry for help from your body to act.
So many people in our society, don’t want to take responsibility for their health. Harsh but true. We say we want good health, but how many of us are actually willing to make the changes to bring this about? If your body is telling you something is not right, are you ready to take a look at your life and see what could be done to truly help your body heal and thrive?? Only then will we create and maintain amazing health and longevity!